ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. in fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with.

however, nobody has ever made out what the word "love" really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of "love"， neither can they deal with the various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.

love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother's pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we'll see no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many don't expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since it's very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.

parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they'll even complain about their children, because they just can't understand why their children don't care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, one's experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they are also too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes "the poor have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains"。 granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes "close neighbors are better than distant relatives." the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldn't go too far into it, otherwise, we'll surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. how can we communicate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc.

no love among relatives has become a normal phenomenon which needn't to be fussed about. what's worse is when love is contaminated by money. sooner or later we will get hurt. the sooner we get out of this net of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories.

we are not living in vacuum, and the society is formed of various kinds of people. as long as we want to live, study, or work, we have to contact, communicate and cooperate with others. those who enjoy common interests, mutual understanding, common undertakings and common benefits become friends.

some friends are called fair-weather friends, because they are together just for entertaining themselves by eating, drinking, and gossiping. once there's nothing to eat and drink, their friendship is finished. some are spiritual friends who share common ambitions, pursuits and education. "they enjoy talking and laughing with the great talents and never make friends with the good-for-nothings". the best examples would be yu boya and zhong ziqi of the ancient times who are famous not only for their lofty music but mainly for their lofty characters and mutual understanding and appreciation. they cared very little about material wealth, so their friendship is known as "gentlemen's friendship as pure as water" third type of friendship belong to those who show their utter devotion to each other. they are ready not only to share weal and woe but also to die for each other, like the three brothers liu, guan and zhang in the novel romance of the three kingdoms. . we all wish to have this kind of friendship, but it's of great difficulty for the ordinary people to be as devoted as they were.

fraternal love or friendship is wide-ranged and flexible. generally speaking, everyone is our friend, just as chairman mao says "our friends are all over the world"。 but transcend age, sex, nationality, state and economic conditions. to them the most important is common benefit, common interest and understanding. friendship is formed during the course of studying, working and fighting. the battle companions who have survived many hazards usually enjoy long-lasting friendship.

however, fraternal love is not stable. being away for too a long time, losing all common benefits, friends will become estranged. once their interest has changed, they no longer understand each other, and even this would harm friendship. at all times and in all countries, many close friends and battle companions who once worked together and fought together became enemies in the end. quiet a few of the emperors in ancient china even killed those who had helped them found their dynasties. the taiping heavenly kingdom would not have failed if it hadn't been for the contending and massacring among the those who first rose in rebellion at the beginning of the uprising. what else we need to pay attention to is that some friends, after being away from each other for too long a time, have lost so much of their original characters that when meeting again, you will feel that you are still the same as you were, while they are no longer themselves. they may have the same feeling about you, so sometimes it's better not to meet each other again. as the chinese proverb goes "friendship can not last for three years and flowers can not stay in blossom for three months"'s not so easy to maintain real friendship which needs mutual understanding, tolerance and sacrifice. any kinds of harsh treatment will damage friendship.

amatory love has been a mystery for ages. there's neither a criterion to judge nor a common rule to follow. nobody can tell the exact reasons why love emerges. it is not always because of beauty (the ugly doorkeeper quasimodo in the hunchback of notre dame is loved by the beautiful gypsy girl esmeralda),nor kindness (hitler also has his mistress),nor wisdom ( even the blockhead may sometimes marry a beautiful girl),nor strength (some love starts from sympathy) love is like getting an electric shock, shaking our soul. it is a sweet dream, a kind of intoxication, indulgence, and endless passion.

true love doesn't need a long time to grow up, to make clear the family tree of the other, neither does it needs the time to look ahead and behind again and again. love is not marriage, which usually starts from love, but doesn't always depend on love to maintain. long-lasting marriage can eventually turn into a kind of family love, a kind of companionship which preserves the companion but loses the passion. love is often an wink of the eye, or a smile that hints mutual understanding. in spite of the great distance between them, people may fall in love incidentally. hence the saying "a distant marriage is tied up with a mysterious thread". love needs passion, and it can stand bumps and stumbles, ups and downs, complaints and blames. when it turns into a pool of water, especially dead water, without any billows or waves, it's time for it to die.

delicacies are tasty, but eating everyday can still make one lose appetite. happiness is what everyone longs for, but too much happiness can spoil people who may not care about the happiness they already have. it's universal to live in happiness without knowing it. the same is true with love. very few people can love the same person passionately all their lives. all love stories come to an end no matter how beautiful they are, which also demonstrate the changeability of love. what one has been chasing wildly may turn into something one wants to get rid of desperately in the end. besides, love is usually blind, especially those who fall in love at the first sight. at the very beginning, both try to demonstrate their beautiful side and cover up their weakness. fooled by the mysterious color of love, one often mistakes the weaknesses as merits. however, as time passes by, frequent contacts make one bored, and even merits become defects, and then the end of love is coming. what's more, there are the capricious men and women who never take love seriously, leaving the devoted ones suffering alone. the saying that the devoted is always abandoned by the heartless has almost become the truth of love affairs. what we can't neglect is that love may turn into hatred, and lovers may also become enemies. the best proof is the numerous divorces.

even though true love is hard to find nowadays, we still can see some true and infatuated boys and girls who readily give up their families, their parents, their studies, their careers and even their lives for love. they love so passionately, crazily and wildly that they hate anyone who is against their love, and may even harm or kill him if he insists on his objection.

love has magical power that can exploit people's potential abilities, bring people's positive factors into full play, and provide people with the courage to face trials and hardships, to go through life and death, and even to risk universal condemnation. even in the ancient feudal society, some people were courageous enough to carry on clandestine love affairs. the examples in point were the courageous ones who dared to love the concubines of the emperors or the children of their foes. love also has miraculous power which can startle the universe and move the gods by attracting the heavenly celestials coming down to earth ( the love story of the cowboy and the weaving girl ),and by turning ghosts into human ( strange tales of liao-zhai ),love can transcend age and generation (dr. sun yat-sen and madam song qingling; luxun and xu guangping) can show contempt for all conventions and prejudices; love can heal wounds and cure diseases, and love can readjust people's state of mind. of course, the result would be the opposite once it hurts.

great men yearn for true love even more than ordinary people. since the ancient times, so many heroes couldn't help falling into the trap of love that the sex-trap has been regarded as one of the 36 stratagems in military tactics. fuchai, the king of the wu state, couldn't be spared of this trap, and generals dongzhuo and lubu fell deeply into it while xiangyu, the king of the western chu state , bid farewell to his beloved concubine in tears. people may have to pay very high price, even their illustrious name for the love they long for even though it may last for only a very short time. nonetheless no one can tear himself away from love. people often say that their earthly affinity is not yet finished, but in fact it is the love affinity that is the most difficult to finish.

love is shapeless and priceless. we can blame nobody when captured by it. love can not be forced, nor can it be pretended. sympathy is not love, neither is gratitude. love must be generated from the heart, and expressed in actions. it can not be called love without passions and a deep longing from the bottom of the heart. there's no impassable gulf between family love and fraternal love. some family love may turn into friendship. at the same time, natural barriers doesn't exist either between fraternal love and amatory love. some friendship may develop into amatory love. the same is true with amatory love which may change into family love after a long time of mutual grinding and closer the relationship, and the higher the expectations are, the more difficult it is to get along with each other. family love, fraternal love and amatory love are three main human feelings. if handled well, they can bring us extreme happiness, while handled improperly, will bring us great sufferings.

the present society is a world of dazzling money and dwindling human feeling contacts. most people hold a snobbish attitude. they only make friends with people of wealth and of high social status. just as zhen shiyen said in his expounding of the song "all good things must end" in a dream of the red mansions "while men with gold and silver by the chest, turn beggars scorned by all and dispossessed"kly speaking, however, if we regard money the first thing in whichever one of the three kinds of loves, it will depreciate and even become worthless.

love can not pretend, nor can it tolerate too much selfish motives. it is reported that an old man in jiangsu province left his million yuan heritage to his young housekeeper instead of his own children, because his own children didn't take care of him while the young housekeeper accompanied him through his last lonely and helpless years.

love is easily perceivable and perceptible. flattery words may be cheatable, but true love and false feelings can easily be distinguished. if the people you love only know how to spend your money, you should be careful of them. everyone can help you spend your money if you give them the chance. never turn your love into the slave of money.

love should be selfless, and feelings should be sincere. we shouldn't judge our feelings according to the distance of the relationship. everyone treasures love and nobody can fool himself or the others. a chinese saying goes: real heroes yearn even more for true love, and great men cherish tender love for their children.

we are the saint on earth, and should treasure our love, but we should know how much is good and where to stop. since there's no ever-lasting banquet, nor is there an endless love story, we should take the gains and losses of love with perfect composure. there's fragrant grass in every corner of the earth, and you can always find your love in this world.

英语以爱为主题的演讲稿篇2

尊敬的老师们，亲爱的同学们：

大家好!

经常有人问我：你妈妈最常唠叨的一句话是什么?我总是笑而不语，因为我不用想都知道，那句常萦绕在我耳边，让我听得有些烦躁、有些无奈的最普通的一句话：多喝水，别上火，你嗓子不好。

从小到大，我的嗓子一直不好，扁桃体经常发炎，也经常发烧。在我小时候最深、最多的记忆便是妈妈带着我奔波于大大小小的医院。直到我十岁那年，因为我的扁桃体已经达到三度肿大再也无法恢复，我在中心医院做了扁桃体摘除手术。本以为从此再也不用担心嗓子发炎和发烧了，可是直到现在，我只要缺水或者大声喊的时间太长，我的嗓子还是会发炎。正因为如此，妈妈总是不分时间、不分地点、不分场合地重复地唠叨着那句话。妈妈真得好烦啊!我时常在心里这么想。

现在我已经上初一了，已经是一个一米七的大小伙子了，但在每天上学的路上，妈妈依旧不厌其烦地唠叨着那句话，丝毫不顾忌在我的身旁还有一个同班级的女生，这让我很没有面子，更让我感觉妈妈好烦。

直到前几天，一个下雪的早晨发生了一件小事，才让我体会到了妈妈的用心良苦，也让我重新体会那句极为厌烦的唠叨。

下了两天雪的路面，结了冰，很滑，而妈妈开车的技术也很差，好不容易才把我送到了学校门口，在我下车准备上学的时候发现我又忘记带水壶了。我对妈妈说：刚刚下过雪，天气也不是很干燥，路上滑太危险了，你就别再来给我送水壶了。因为我了解妈妈，我每次忘记带水壶，她都会不嫌麻烦地给我送到学校，她怕我缺水。

吃完早饭准备上课的时候，贾老师让我去学校门口取水壶。我知道妈妈还是来了。当我看到学校门口冻得哆嗦的妈妈站在雪地里的时候，我忽然感受到那个手里捧着的水壶对于妈妈来说是多么得宝贵，因为它可以让她的孩子嗓子不缺水，少发炎，少受一次病痛的折磨，哪怕自己冒着危险开车溜着冰跑一趟，至少她的心可以放下了——不用担心孩子缺水而嗓子发炎。

当我接过水壶的时候，妈妈又开口准备唠叨那句话：多喝水……

多喝水，别上火，我嗓子不好。我打断了她，我接着说：妈妈，我知道了。

妈妈笑了，是幸福的笑，我也笑了，是感恩的笑!

生活中处处充满着妈妈无微不至的关怀。我感恩，所以我幸福。

英语以爱为主题的演讲稿篇3

thanksgiving, although it is an act of the verb, but it is not the only action required and, more importantly, needs to be done in good faith. easy to say that thanksgiving is gratitude, heartfelt gratitude. you know that every year in november the fourth thursday, what holiday are you? the united states are of thanksgiving. at that time each year, americans should thank god. of our high school students, we would also like to thank "god", but given our lives this is the "god" - our parents.

i like most people, from small to large the most loved themselves, most worthy of the appreciation of their natural parents is that they both in material or spiritual growth i have played a crucial role, naturally, for their such as days of my high thinking deep sea conditions are taken for granted.

i have a first-hand experience with their parents that they do not talk back, making them less angry with their parents to talk about many hearts, with their "resource sharing", the parent every day, so my "thanksgiving plan" is: let them less angry and more happy, happy at all times. do not say, the results are really marvelous!

previously, the sum of my parents for some bring frivolous unhappy much, and i always strongly insist their position, they have a tense atmosphere will be like a boil water "boiling" up, eventually causing a break up in discord. later, after careful thought, i know that are wrong and should not be as to calm, patience and a lot of parents only. so parents do not want to see me unhappy they prepare to try to implement a set of "thanksgiving program", making their parents at any time to face all broad smiles on their faces, but also repay some of my feelings of parents.

say . one night, sitting in my chair on the idea of the topic, his hands up first. happened to see a mother, she has misunderstood me, saying that does not concentrate on my homework, the. although i feel wronged, but in order to avoid a " war" in order to allow mother not angry, in order to "thanksgiving plans," the success of my "bear", did not explain, and said: "in the future, no longer can." this also because i know that mother's personality: forever for their own opinion "defense." i did not expect that, at this moment, my mind has not the past "quarrel" at the time of the burden, but also very happy and feel the feelings of gratitude are revealing. i did not expect to make is this: not long after, but mother "from warrington" - mimi's a laugh.

how kind, the scheme you good results!

in short, let the parents are pleased the method is a kind of thanksgiving. "a good start is half the success," i believe after thanksgiving again or there will be "harvest" of.

thanksgiving is a way, thanksgiving is a realm. only institute of thanksgiving, to get other people's respect and love.

英语以爱为主题的演讲稿篇4

以感恩为主题的英语演讲稿

hello! ladies and gentlemen, it is so nice to meet you !i am gladthat you can spend this precious time having this class in thisafternoon.

now please allow me to introduce myself to you .my name is wangjia and imajored in traffic engineering .baoji is my hometown it is verybeautiful. and the people are very friendly.

as we all knowen thingking is easy acting is difficult and to putone's thoughts into actions is the most difficult thing in the world.

so if we want to learn english well ,we must practice reading englisheveryday ,acturally practicing repeatly is the best way to succeed.whenyou speak ,don't care how poorly or how well you speak just care aboutcatching the chance to speak ,enjoy losing face or just forget your facebecause the more you speak the better your english will become,neverafraid ofmaking mistakes because the more mistakes you make the more progress you will make.as a man living in the world ,we must try our best to makeeach day our masterpiece and don't let our parents down ,don't ever letour country down ,most importantly don't let ourself down.

yesterday is a memory tommorrow is a dream so live for todayjust do it right now.i believe if you can dream it you can make it ,ifyou do you will win if you don't you won't.believe in youself trustyouself try your best. don't give up ,never give in, never lose hope ,never say impossible .the success is coming ! thank you !

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你好!女士们，先生们，见到你们真高兴!我很高兴你能抽出宝贵的时间安排在这类。

现在请允许我向你介绍我自己。我叫王佳，主修的专业是交通工程。宝鸡是我的家乡，它是美丽的。人们都很友好。

我们都知道思维是容易的行动是困难的，把想法付诸行动是世界上最难的事。

所以，如果我们想学好英语，我们必须练习阅读英语日常时，实际上是成功的.当你练习重复你说的最好的.方式，不在乎你说的多么说只关心抓住机会说，热爱丢脸或是忘记你的因为你说的越多，你的英语就会越好不要害怕犯错误，因为你犯的错误你取得的进步就更多了。生活在一个人的世界，我们必须尽力使每一天我们的杰作，不让父母失望，永远不要让我们的国家失望，最重要的是不要让自己失望。

昨天是记忆，明天是一个梦想，活在今天，现在就做。我相信如果你有梦想的话，你可以，如果你会赢，如果你不你不会相信你自己都尽自己最大的努力。不要放弃，不要放弃，不要失去希望，不要说不可能。成功就要来了!谢谢您!

英语以爱为主题的演讲稿篇5

the world we lived in decided that we have to learn to help each other and get help from others.we as human beings have interacted each other no matter in which stage of history.and,also,we have to learn how to express our gratitude to our loved ones who have been caring us all the way.

i want to thank my parents,who made me who i am,who shored my entire life up,who loved me with their life,who sacrificed for me through thick and thin.from the very beginning of my life to now,from the very simple words to the fundamental truth about life,they are forging their love for me.

i want to thank my classmates,who are always friendly to me,who take me for their own brother,who share their delight with me and stay with me to brave the trouble that i shoule have done myself,who will always be honest with me.

i want to thank my teachers,who reclaim me from the wrong way that led to inevitable failure,who treat me with care and respect,who give me the most extraordinary love that more than i can imagine,who define what it means to sacrifice.the sacrifices that without hezitation of repaying.

i want to thank all the wonderful people,who are loving and being loved.

英语以爱为主题的演讲稿篇6

亲爱的老师、同学们：

大家好!

一滴水，要感谢大海，让它汇聚成了无尽的水流;一朵花，要感谢雨露，滋润它在阳光下茁壮成长;一只鹰，要感谢长空，赐予了它前进远方的力量;一座山，要感谢大地，用自己的臂膀，给了她高耸的方向;一个人，要学会感恩，才能托起世界的脊梁!学会感恩，不仅是报答，更是心存感激的表示。

“羊有跪乳之恩，鸦有反哺之义”，人更要充满感恩之情。一颗感恩之心，化干戈为玉帛;一颗感恩之心，化腐朽为神奇;一颗感恩之心，化冰峰为春暖。学会了感恩，才会在生活中发现美好。一次，美国前总统罗斯福家失窃，被偷去了许多东西，一位朋友闻讯后，忙写信安慰他，劝他不必太在意。罗斯福给朋友写了一封回信：“亲爱的朋友，谢谢你来信安慰我，我现在很平安。感谢上帝，因为贼偷去的是我的东西，而没有伤害我的生命;贼只偷去我部分东西，而不是全部;最值得庆幸的是，做贼的是他，而不是我。”对任何一个人来说，失窃绝对是不幸的事，而罗斯福却能在失窃中找到美好，因为他拥有了茁壮成长的感恩之树。

在人生的路上，缺少了感恩，就缺少了阳光雨露。这种人生的哲理，让我们不断地面临生命的挑战，人生的巅峰。感恩沟通了人的心灵，让他人的帮助铭记在心。在这个时代，如果人与人之间不存在感恩，那么人与人之间的关系就不复存在，社会也将成为一片大沙漠。

感恩是人与生俱来的本性，是生活美好的基础。我们心怀感恩，就能回报社会，报答自然。马斯洛曾说，心若改变，态度就跟着改变;态度若改变，习惯就跟着改变;习惯若改变，性格就跟着改变;性格若改变，人生就跟着改变。我们若播种感恩的心，就收获诚恳的态度;若播种诚恳的态度，就带动良好的习惯;若播种良好的习惯，就升华为健康的性格;若播种健康的性格，才收获成功的人生!

谢谢大家!

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